Is it blue balls or girls are like that???

Once, in a small family gathering, my mother was complaining to my father about my brother and was nagging him continuously. My father sat there, deep in thought, listening quietly to my mother, when all of a sudden his thoughts spoke out, “why do women complain so much?” Then and there all of us burst into a laugh which irritated my mother and she left grumbling “like father, like daughter”.

But the question struck my mind with such an intensity that I sat thinking- when it comes to complaining, why is it always associated with woman alone? Its not that only they complain, men also complain but never heard anyone asking why men complain. Or is it simply because women are more sensitive than men and seek for emotional dependance.

The moment we hear the word “woman”, the first thing that strikes our mind is someone accompanied with the gift of the gab. One who likes to brag and nag all the time, who is more interested in talking about herself, her lifestyle, her children, and her family, than being a good listener. One who can keep on talking on anything right from the perfume fragrance to how often the woman, who lives in the next village, visits her parental home!!! (One who likes to complain about the silliest thing)

We have tagged a lot of things with a woman’s identity. But have we ever thought why women do so? Is it the law of nature for women to complain always?

The question to which most of the men would answer, is ‘yes’.

These sensitive creatures have been misunderstood on this pretext. It is not a woman actually who is always complaining, but circumstances has led her to behave like that. In a family, it is ‘She’ who keeps the family intact. And so each and every member of the family is kept under her scrutiny. She is always answerable to whatever good or bad happens at home. But why? Is she to be blamed for everything? Is that all fair?

When a man is being questioned, he feels that his wife is complaining, as men do not really like the idea of women interfering in their professional lives.

Being the weaker sex or considering one, they often feel insecure about themselves, as men prefer to spend most of the time outside. Which men sometimes fail to understand and this compels women to start nagging and bickering constantly. As a result of which, men develop extramarital affairs for they feel that their wives at their homes are trying to control them.

So, if we sit down and ponder upon the question above, the answer is, because men find it difficult to adjust to the desires and personality of women. There are flaws in both the sexes, however, men must try to understand what women want and compromise with them for all this, while women have been compromising with men.

But, exceptions are always there.!!!!

Even in the early days of getting into a relationship, every single finds it exciting and extravagant journey to howl and coax around. But sooner or later, they get into this jig.

I think there's a misunderstanding here of what guys think girls are complaining about.

Girls are not complaining about not getting laid. They're complaining about bad guys pretending to be "nice" guys to get into their pants. Girls don't have it easier than guys.  Correct me if I'm wrong, but I always feel that girls are more emotional than guys so they're looking for more than just a good time. Girls don't give it up easier because they want to see if the guy will stick around or what intentions are.

I don't know about anybody else, but it seems that these days people are more open to just screw a stranger and not call them back.  Call me naive, but I'd rather get to know the person I'm getting with.  At least find out if he's been tested. Some strangers just get jiggy with it right off the bat with no questions asked.

Whenever a girl does the same thing as a guy, also remember that she's the one who gets judged by society not the guy. 

Overall, I do not think girls have it easier than guys. They may have no problem finding a guy for the night, but it's getting him to stay that's the hard part.

Girls -- do you agree or disagree with this? 

We can go on building up evidences and circumstances, where the girl had missed the guys desire or the guy has not understood the girls intentions. But, the problem lies within one, as we say "to be or not to be". It's such a perfect phrase for this situation, don't create hypothetical strand around the relation.

Going a foot forth would cost a million of joy and freedom to surrender for uncountable days of happiness and love. Choice gets along you, which way to lean forward....!!!!

Life is fun, all we need to know what we need in life!!!!